Merge upstream/develop: Update slf4j-api to 2.0.17 for Jakarta EE 10 compatibility

- Resolved conflict: Keep slf4j-api 2.0.17 (required for Jakarta EE 10)
- Upstream tried to use 1.7.36 which is incompatible with Jakarta namespace
- Updated expected-pom.xml to reflect correct SLF4J 2.x version

Author: JinwooHwang

boms/geode-all-bom/src/test/resources/expected-pom.xml

@@ -415,7 +415,7 @@
       <dependency>
         <groupId>org.slf4j</groupId>
         <artifactId>slf4j-api</artifactId>
-        <version>1.7.32</version>
+        <version>2.0.17</version>
       </dependency>
       <dependency>
         <groupId>org.springframework.hateoas</groupId>