infra: use Iceberg 1.10.1 (#2886)

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# Rationale for this change
New Iceberg Version. 

Relates to #2885
Let's get #2885 in before this PR

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Author: kevinjqliu

dev/spark/Dockerfile

@@ -18,7 +18,7 @@ ARG BASE_IMAGE_SPARK_VERSION=4.0.1
 FROM apache/spark:${BASE_IMAGE_SPARK_VERSION}
 
 # Dependency versions - keep these compatible
-ARG ICEBERG_VERSION=1.10.0
+ARG ICEBERG_VERSION=1.10.1
 ARG ICEBERG_SPARK_RUNTIME_VERSION=4.0_2.13
 ARG SPARK_VERSION=4.0.1
 ARG HADOOP_VERSION=3.4.1