node-api: execute tsfn finalizer after queue drains when aborted #4187

Job	Run time
Build slim tarball	3m 24s
x86_64-linux: with shared libraries	3m 2s
aarch64-darwin: with shared libraries	21m 40s
x86_64-darwin: with shared libraries	22m 43s
aarch64-linux: with shared libraries	2m 51s
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