sqlite: add trace sql hook #4210

Job	Run time
Build slim tarball	1m 55s
aarch64-darwin: with shared libraries	21m 10s
x86_64-darwin: with shared libraries	31m 26s
aarch64-linux: with shared libraries	20m 36s
x86_64-linux: with shared libraries	25m 35s
	1h 40m 42s

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