Upgrade sqlx and implement db detection #1726

Job	Run time
windows_test	3m 16s
test (mysql, mysql, mysql://root:Password123!@127.0.0.1/sqlpage)	1m 57s
test (postgres, postgres, postgres://root:Password123!@127.0.0.1/sqlpage)	2m 40s
docker_build (linux/arm64)	42s
docker_build (linux/amd64)	7m 38s
compile_and_lint	2m 20s
docker_build (linux/arm/v7)	1m 35s
test (odbc, postgres, Driver={PostgreSQL Unicode};Server=127.0.0.1;Port=5432;Database=sqlpage;UID...	3m 28s
test (mssql, mssql, mssql://root:Password123!@127.0.0.1/sqlpage)	2m 25s
docker_push	-1s
	26m 0s

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