Add CMake presets and start to use them in CI

[tmadlener]

BEGINRELEASENOTES

• Add a few cmake presets to put common build options together. Use cmake --list-presets to see the available presets.
• Use presets in CI workflows to reduce some of the duplication that is currently present

ENDRELEASENOTES

• assumes that Add a cmake option to toggle schema evolution tests with code generation #902 is already in place as it also uses that cache variable

[m-fila]

How about workflow presets to combine configure/build/test presets?

[tmadlener]

I had briefly thought about workflow presets, but they would require schema version 6, aka cmake >= 3.25 and I wasn't sure whether we have that fulfilled in all our CI workflows. However, looking into things, even LCG_104 comes with 3.26.2, so this should be fine.

[tmadlener]

I have looked into workflow presets a bit and it looks like we cannot pass additional options via -D with cmake --workflow --preset. See also: https://discourse.cmake.org/t/workflow-usage/8288/9

At least at the moment we use those quite a bit for some configuration on top of the ci-build preset.