fix(builder): enhance createForeignKey to support onCreateTable option

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Medium Risk
Touches SQL generation for foreign keys and option validation/normalization, so regressions could break migrations or produce invalid DDL for some input shapes despite added test coverage.

Overview
Adds an onCreateTable mode to ManageSQLBuilder.createForeignKey so foreign keys can be rendered inline as CONSTRAINT ... clauses during CREATE TABLE, while keeping the existing ALTER TABLE ... ADD CONSTRAINT path for standalone operations.

Standardizes foreign-key option naming to table/column under references (and table/column for the target as well), with backward-compatible support for deprecated reference and tableName/columnName inputs across the builder, migrations API, and TypeScript definitions; tests are updated/added to cover both modern and legacy formats.

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