SlurmManager: Add the custom_worker_flag option, but don't add it to the public API

[DilumAluthge]

Description

I have a use case where, instead of starting each remote worker with julia --worker, I need to start the remote workers with julia -e 'my_custom_code()'.

This PR modifies SlurmManager to have a custom_worker_flag option. When custom_worker_flag is specified, it will replace --worker. When custom_worker_flag is not specified (which is the default), it falls back to the current behavior.

Example usage

using Distributed: addprocs
using SlurmClusterManager: SlurmManager

julia_code = """
    my_custom_code()
"""

addprocs(SlurmManager(); custom_worker_flag = `-e "$(julia_code)"`) 

This will start each remote worker with julia -e 'my_custom_code()'.

Public API vs private API

This PR does not add the new custom_worker_flag option to the public API. This allows us to change (or remove) it in the future.

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Codecov Report

❌ Patch coverage is 70.58824% with 5 lines in your changes missing coverage. Please review.
✅ Project coverage is 87.03%. Comparing base (e49016d) to head (674f016).
⚠️ Report is 2 commits behind head on master.

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[DilumAluthge]

This is not ready to merge yet, but I figure it can't hurt to get an early round of reviews.