[refactor][COM][common] revert community code changes to maintain internal compatibility

[v-kkhuang]

What is the purpose of the change

Background/Problem:
Community code changes that were merged introduce incompatibilities with internal deployments. Some upstream changes conflict with existing internal implementations and deployment requirements, causing issues in production environments.

Purpose of Change:
To address these compatibility issues, this PR reverts specific community code changes in DWCArgumentsParser, ParameterUtils, EngineConnArguments, and ProcessEngineConnLaunch while maintaining the necessary functionality for internal deployments.

Value/Impact:
After this change, the codebase will maintain compatibility with internal deployment requirements, ensuring stable operation in production environments while preserving essential functionality.

Related issues/PRs

Related issues: close #1031
Related pr:none

Brief change log

• Revert community code changes in DWCArgumentsParser
• Remove ParameterUtils.scala (reverted from community)
• Revert community code changes in EngineConnArguments
• Revert community code changes in ProcessEngineConnLaunch

Checklist

• I have read the Contributing Guidelines on pull requests.
• I have explained the need for this PR and the problem it solves
• I have explained the changes or the new features added to this PR
• I have added tests corresponding to this change
• I have updated the documentation to reflect this change
• I have verified that this change is backward compatible
• If this is a code change: I have written unit tests to fully verify the new behavior.

[casionone]

LGTM.