[To dev/1.3] Pipe: Reset tablet pipeDataStructureTabletSizeInBytes to 16MB & Enable stopping exception restart by manual stop pipe (#17588)

[Caideyipi]

Description

As the title said.

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This PR has:

• been self-reviewed.
  • concurrent read
  • concurrent write
  • concurrent read and write
• added documentation for new or modified features or behaviors.
• added Javadocs for most classes and all non-trivial methods.
• added or updated version, license, or notice information
• added comments explaining the "why" and the intent of the code wherever would not be obvious
  for an unfamiliar reader.
• added unit tests or modified existing tests to cover new code paths, ensuring the threshold
  for code coverage.
• added integration tests.
• been tested in a test IoTDB cluster.

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Key changed/added classes (or packages if there are too many classes) in this PR

[sonarqubecloud]

Quality Gate passed

Issues
1 New issue
0 Accepted issues

Measures
0 Security Hotspots
0.0% Coverage on New Code
0.0% Duplication on New Code

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Codecov Report

❌ Patch coverage is 51.42857% with 34 lines in your changes missing coverage. Please review.
✅ Project coverage is 41.65%. Comparing base (04e6684) to head (39a91f0).
⚠️ Report is 4 commits behind head on dev/1.3.

Files with missing lines	Patch %	Lines
...otdb/confignode/persistence/pipe/PipeTaskInfo.java	0.00%	12 Missing ⚠️
...he/iotdb/confignode/persistence/pipe/PipeInfo.java	0.00%	11 Missing ⚠️
.../procedure/impl/pipe/task/StopPipeProcedureV2.java	58.33%	5 Missing ⚠️
...PipeStatusWithStoppedByRuntimeExceptionPlanV2.java	86.20%	4 Missing ⚠️
...ger/pipe/coordinator/task/PipeTaskCoordinator.java	0.00%	1 Missing ⚠️
...gnode/persistence/executor/ConfigPlanExecutor.java	0.00%	1 Missing ⚠️

Additional details and impacted files

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+ Coverage      41.62%   41.65%   +0.03%     
  Complexity       234      234              
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  Files           3610     3611       +1     
  Lines         238026   238126     +100     
  Branches       28892    28916      +24     
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+ Hits           99086    99201     +115     
+ Misses        138940   138925      -15     

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