chore: upgrade ci actions and exclude examples in whl

[waketzheng]

Description

1. Upgrade ci action
2. Close Examples should not be installed #2048
3. Run make up to upgrade deps

Motivation and Context

How Has This Been Tested?

Checklist:

• My code follows the code style of this project.
• My change requires a change to the documentation.
• I have updated the documentation accordingly.
• I have added the changelog accordingly.
• I have read the CONTRIBUTING document.
• I have added tests to cover my changes.
• All new and existing tests passed.

[codspeed-hq]

CodSpeed Performance Report

Merging #2050 will not alter performance

_{Comparing waketzheng:ci-upgrade-actions (66e8c25) with develop (a725917)}

Summary

✅ 16 untouched

[coveralls]

Pull Request Test Coverage Report for Build 20514431453

Details

• 0 of 0 changed or added relevant lines in 0 files are covered.
• No unchanged relevant lines lost coverage.
• Overall coverage remained the same at 90.744%

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Totals
Change from base Build 20418916800:	0.0%
Covered Lines:	6635
Relevant Lines:	7197

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💛 - Coveralls