chore: upgrade to cupy-cuda13

[ilan-gold]

• Closes #
• Tests added
• Release note added (or unnecessary)

[codecov]

Codecov Report

✅ All modified and coverable lines are covered by tests.
✅ Project coverage is 84.72%. Comparing base (0d7817a) to head (f0de36e).
⚠️ Report is 2 commits behind head on main.
✅ All tests successful. No failed tests found.

Additional details and impacted files

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+ Coverage   84.69%   84.72%   +0.02%     
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  Files          46       46              
  Lines        7194     7194              
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+ Hits         6093     6095       +2     
+ Misses       1101     1099       -2     

see 1 file with indirect coverage changes